Like we said earlier, do you feel bad when you spend time with your friends and family in the absence of your girlfriend? If your answer is yes, then consider it as a red flag for your relationship. She is not only making you guilt-ridden, but she is also trying to isolate you from your loved ones. Phrases like “I am not important for you at all”, or “You don’t love me” double up with time.
4. Your Partner Can Play The Blame Game Too Well
If your girlfriend is abusing you emotionally, chances are that she will be very moody and would blame you for her mood swings. She would soon start blaming you for her personal issues as well and might criticize you for ruining her life. Since they cannot deal with their issues responsibly, they find you as an easy to bait to get rid of that remorse.
5. She Starts Micro-Controlling You
One of the biggest warning signs is when she forces you to take decisions with her consultation. It wouldn’t come as a surprise if she starts controlling your finances and how and where you should spend your money. There is nothing wrong in giving financial suggestions, but if she expects you to get her permission before every purchase, then there is definitely something fishy.
6. She Does Not Give A F*ck About Your Life Or Your Emotions
In any relationship, showing compassion towards each other is really important. But if she is an emotional abuser she would never respect you, let alone have empathy. If you ever try to confront her, she would outright deny it accusing you of thinking too much. She would constantly play with your emotions irrespective of whether you like it or not.
