However, consider this – How about not finding ‘the one’ at all? How about being the one? Here’s something you can do, while you’re on the long wait.
1. Be the one
Take a close look at yourself. Are you yourself? Do you crave for attention? Do you think you need someone to complete you? Answers to these questions will reveal how ‘desperate’ you are or aren’t to be with someone. In this entire search to find the ‘one’, somewhere you’re losing your own identity. You want someone else to like you by being someone you’re not. Instead of searching ‘the one’, how about ‘being someone’.
2. Hide your ‘Desperate Dan’ status
It’s okay to be desperate. What’s not okay is to show that you’re desperate. In desperation, we tend to make hasty decisions. That is, you would settle for someone who you would then realise was not meant for you.