Knowing a relationship is over is the hardest part especially if you’re just getting out of a long-term relationship. Break-ups are really painful and regardless of how they happen, you always feel like you don’t want to let that one person to completely disappear from your life so what do you do?
You decide to remain friends but let me tell you one thing, this is a very bad idea for several reasons and you can see why for yourself below.
1. It isn’t fair to either of you.
Both of you’ll will feel drawn to each other and miss each other even more than you would if you’ll didn’t remain friends. If you care at all about each other, you’ll shouldn’t be doing this to each other and putting yourselves through so much.
2. It will get even more difficult for you both to move on and get over each other.
You’ve heard of the saying ‘out of sight, out of mind’ right? If there’s any chance of both of you’ll moving on as quickly as possible, you’ll have to cut off all relationship with each other at least for while so the pain isn’t as raw anymore.