When you constantly point out things that are wrong in the other person and that, according to you, need modifications, you’ll only be successful in pushing them away. Instead, you should make it a point of appreciating them for who they are, for that is what makes them unique.
4. Constantly whining.
No one wants to be around a crybaby. Be it cribbing about your arrogant colleague at work, ranting about the humid weather or arguing over a past fight – it’s time you stopped whining to them ALL THE TIME! People want to be around happy people who infuse positivity and spread happy vibes, not those who kill their mojo.